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The KEY Reason Relationships Fail
... and How to Remedy It
Hello! My name is Stan Dubin and thank you for making your way here.
There are a number of reasons people think relationships fail. A few of them are:
- Too little (or no) lovemaking.
- The lovemaking isn't satisfying anymore.
- Money problems.
- Long working hours.
- Careers "going in different directions."
- The passion is gone.
All of the above may be factors, but they are not THE KEY REASON.
Before you end an important relationship, it is vital that you know THE reason a relationship fails and how to remedy this.
Divorces are not only expensive, they are very rough on the kids. If someone has told you, "don't worry, kids are resilient, they'll get through it," then that person hasn't sat in front of someone 15 years after their parents got divorced and listened to the heart ache that is STILL very much a part of their lives.
Every time a relationship ends, BOTH people bring their "emotional baggage" to their next relationship. That's not just an expression that marriage counselors use as part of a sales pitch. It's a fact that's been proven over and over again.
If you're wondering about my marriage, my wife and I have been married for 29 years. Has it been one smooth ride all the way? No. We've had our share of marital problems. There were a few rough patches, a couple that were very rough.
But each time, my wife and I applied the very same information that is available to you here. And that information not only kept us together, it restored the love and passion.
I understand if that sounds incredible. The first time we applied this information and got that kind of result, it was pretty incredible to us. But also VERY enjoyably so. We wanted to fix our marriage and we had the exact information to do so.
Important Note: In reading the next section, you may get a bit uncomfortable. If that happens, realize that some "stuff" may be getting stirred up. This can happen. The good news: a remedy exists to get rid of that "stuff!"
The KEY Reason Relationships Fail
When people get together, either in a relationship or in any kind of group situation, they make certain agreements with each other.
In the workplace we agree to be on time, to work hard, to be as productive as possible.
In a marriage, we agree to be sexually faithful, to be honest, to be supportive.
When people create a partnership (of any kind), agreements are an essential ingredient to the partnership. We may not sit down and list out all of these agreements, but these agreements are there.
When we do something that "breaks" any of these agreements, we KNOW that we've done so. We may try to convince ourselves that "it was unavoidable" or "they deserved it." It doesn't matter. We know that we've done something that, in some way, has violated an agreement of the relationship.
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A husband and wife do not just fall out of love with each other. That's what they may say and that's what they may feel, but factually they have both simply accumulated too many "broken agreements." These do not have to be of a very serious nature. But over time, they can mount up and then ALL KINDS of not-so-wonderful things can happen:
1) Married couples separate or get divorced.
2) Lovers break up.
3) Friendships fall apart.
4) Kids treat their parents poorly (or vice-versa).
Any type of relationship can be destroyed when there are too many "broken agreements." |
The Solution
Fortunately there is a very specific procedure that remedies this. The full details of this procedure are given in the eBook: When the Thrill Is Gone, How to Put the Life and Excitement Back Into Any Relationship. This eBook is available for immediate download. Within minutes you'll be able to read it on your computer screen or print out a full copy of it.
At 129 pages, this is a substantial eBook filled with effective solutions.
The cost is only $28.95. |
| Successful Applications
"In Oct 2007, Peter and I will be married twenty years. For both of us, this is our second marriage. Using the information in the book When the Thrill Is Gone has helped us to make this marriage a true success. When we first got together, we loved and cared for each other tremendously. And that love and care has continued to grow to this day. It's a real joy to be this happily married."
Jeannette and Peter Buckles / Palm Harbor, Florida
"Restoration of my relationship with Richard is the biggest win. I do know that it was meant for Richard and I to continue on our journey together. I just never realized how much my loss of communicating with him was impacting on other areas of my life. Thank you - thank you - thank you!!! for helping Richard and I find our way back to one another."
Christine and Richard Panetta / Oakdale, NY
"My wife and I have applied the materials in Stan Dubin's book several times throughout our marriage and each time we were able to resolve a marital problem. Sometimes these problems would seem rather daunting, but having the right information made a huge difference and actually made our relationship better than ever before! Yes, we strongly recommend the book."
Paul and Roxanne Silovsky / Topeka, Kansas
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When the Thrill Is Gone also covers these important subjects:
Too many upsets? Find out how to QUICKLY resolve these.
Someone undermining your relationship? A full chapter on how to resolve this.
Are you still upset by a previous relationship? Learn how to put this fully behind you!
Do you want (do you need) to improve the communication level? Two chapters to help you do just that.
Are you looking to start a new relationship? An amazing tool to help you choose the right person!
And much more...
The most important (and longest) chapter deals with THE Number One reason relationships fail: broken agreements.
Now I realize you may not agree this is THE reason relationships go off the rails. Here is my genuine response to that: 
When literally thousands of couples have had their relationships completely restored based on that ONE fundamental point, that's powerfully convincing.
And I assure you, the eBook goes over this point in much greater depth. It gives answers to the most pressing relationship problems. And it provides procedures to use right there in your own home.
The eBook being offered here is not about compromising. It's not about coping with your relationship problems. It's about solving them so that you can restore the life and excitement.
Relationships are very important. They deserve exact tools that work.

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